Batty Headband

     I found the idea for this headband here and modified it a bit to get the resulting look.

Materials:
*Black headband
*Black wire
*Wire cutters
*Black cardstock
*Scissors
*Pencil
*All purpose adhesive

Directions:
*Print out the bat template given below and trace it 10 times onto a sheet of cardstock.  Cut out the 10 bats.

*Cut off 5 lengths of wire about 10" and wrap the bottom of each piece of wire around the headband at evenly spaced intervals.
*Curl the rest of the wire around a pencil or another cylindrical object and then stretch out the wire.
*Glue two bats back to back on each free end of wire, so that the ends of the wire are sandwiched between the bats.  Let dry and then you are finished.

Bat Mask and Halloween Party Ideas

Bat Mask

Materials:

*Tulle

*Puffy fabric paint

*Elastic cord

*Waxed paper

*Scissors

*Tape

*X-acto knife

Directions:

*I got the template and instructions for this craft from Joann's website.  I basically followed the directions given there, except for the following:

*I used elastic cord in place of ribbon to hold the mask up.

*I practiced drawing lines on a scrap of tulle to get a feel for drawing lines on the material itself.

*I peeled the mask off the waxed paper before cutting.

*I used an X-acto knife to help with cutting out parts of the mask, including for making incisions through which to loop the elastic cord.

Halloween Snacks and Food Related Party Crafts

     Brian and I made our cemetery cupcakes again this year, but we varied the recipe slightly.  I found some cute Halloween tombstone candy molds from Joann and thought they would be perfect for my cupcakes.

Halloween Cemetery Cupcakes

Ingredients:
*10 oz bag of white candy melts

*10 oz bag of black candy melts

*10 oz bag of pumpkin spice flavored candy melts (could be substituted for flavor of your choice)

*Brian's vanilla icing (scroll to the bottom of this blog post for recipe)

*Green food coloring

*Devil's food cupcakes

*Oreos

Supplies:

*Tombstone mold

*Microwave safe bowl

*Spoon

*Food processor (or blender)

Directions for tombstones:

*Place 3 pumpkin spice candy melts, 5 black candy melts, and 14 white candy melts in a microwave safe bowl and microwave for 1 minute (we have a 900 watt microwave, so time may vary depending on the wattage of your microwave).  Stir until smooth and the colors are thoroughly mixed to produce a uniform gray color.

*Spoon the mixture into the four tombstone shaped molds.  The amount of candy in the bowl should be enough to fill each mold about halfway.  I liked filling them halfway because the thinner, lighter tombstones didn't have to be pressed as deep into the cupcakes to stay upright, but if you want maximal thickness, use twice as much candy as the first step calls for.

*Place candy mold in the freezer.  Let sit for about 10 minutes and then pop the candies out of the mold.  Clean the mold and repeat the process to make the remainder of the tombstones.

Directions for cupcake decorating:

*Prepare devil's food cupcakes according to the directions on the packaging.

*Prepare icing and add green food coloring a few drops at a time, until the icing is the shade of green that you want for your cemetery "grass."

*Place three Oreos in a food processor and grind them up.

*Take one of the cupcakes, ice it, push a tombstone into the center, and sprinkle some Oreo "dirt" at the foot of the tombstone.

     Here are some of the other snacks we had.  This year Brian and I made our eyeball deviled eggs again (for recipe, see this post.  It also has instructions for how to make a neat Halloween egg plate, which the eggs are resting on, although you can't really tell from this picture).  We cut up some sharp cheddar cheese and put it in the center of the egg plate.  Brian's mom made the eyeball cookies by making a chocolate chip cookie type dough and placing Hershey's Hugs and Hershey's Drops in the center.  As for the non-food items present, here's how I made the cupcake stand, here's how I made the appetizer skewers and their "stone" holder, and here's how I made the tablecloth.

     Here's the table setup.  It's basically the same as it was for last year's Halloween party.  I again used my glittery goblets.

Indoor Decor

     This year I had so many decorations that I wanted to keep on my Halloween "mantle" that I ended up throwing some spare cloth over the printer and its stand and using that as a secondary place to put my spooky accent items.  Here's how I made the haunted mirror.  I used my Silhouette CAMEO to construct the spell book in the center.  I combined elements from this pattern and this pattern and used Old English Text MT font for the text.  That particular lenticular portrait is one that I bought from Rite Aid last year.  All of the lenticulars I've bought have either come without a frame or in a tacky plastic frame, but in this post I explain how to make them look nicer (scroll to the bottom of the post to find the directions).  On top of the printer is one of my creepy dolls.  Here's how to make them.

     Here's my traditional Halloween "mantle" (read: tower of storage containers I've thrown a sheet over).  I took some black gauzy cloth I got from Dollar Tree and threw it over my tie dyed sheet that I usually cover it with.  Instructions for the gingerbread zombie plushie will be coming in a later post.

     Here's my felt sleepy bat and my spooky sign.

     And here's my Halloween banner.

     And some pom pom pals hanging around with the sign I got from the Target dollar aisle a few years back.

     The figurines and the light up haunted grove in the foreground of the photo my mom gave me a number of years ago.  I think she got them from A. C. Moore.  There's my Halloween tree with ornaments and behind that you can see my potion bottles.

Outdoor Decor

     Here's the whole outdoor setup.  The eyeball path markers I got from Kmart several years back and the jack o'lantern lights on the door Brian surprised me with last year for Halloween.  He got them from Rite Aid.  Those zombie lawn gnomes lurking at the edge of the house Brian's mom gave me for Christmas.  She got them from Oriental Trading.  Also, it's hard to see, but there is a light up spider on the glass part of the screen door that I got this year from Dollar Tree.

     Here's a closeup on the door.  That's my glow in the dark eyeball wreath on the door.  The door hanger I printed out from the internet and laminated, but I can't find a link to the PDF for the door hanger anymore.

     Here's my little Halloween cemetery.  It was predicted to rain up until noontime, which was one hour before my party started, so I had to wait until then to put everything up.  That's why it looks like it was just thrown together, but I'm so glad that I got to put it out there that I don't care.  The tombstone on the far left of the picture I made from insulation foam and the third and sixth from left I made from regular styrofoam.  The other tombstones came from Target (they were part of a kit along with some of the skeletal remains and fencing), Dollar Tree, and some sort of yard sale/flea market.  In front of my insulation foam tombstone you can see my eerie graveyard bouquet.  Those skeletal arms in front of the two tiny tombstones I made from skeletal salad tongs I picked up from Dollar Tree (directions to come).  Lastly, it's hard to see, but peeking out from behind the tombstone that the skull is in front of you can see my haunted hedge eyes, which I got from Target last year.  We don't have any hedges nearby, so I figured that was a good place for them.

Activities

     We had a Yankee swap again this year.  I wrote numbers on masking tape and stuck them to the bottom of the paper witch hats I made last year and Brian stuck numbers to the prizes so that no one would know which hat corresponded to a particular prize.  This year I didn't have time to craft prizes (too much time spent writing my paper on quantum teleportation :p), so I picked up inexpensive items from Joann and Dollar Tree.  What we did for the swap was that people would pick up one of the hats and then find the prize corresponding to the number on the bottom of the hat.  If they liked their prize, then they got to keep it and if they didn't, then they could swap with someone for their prize.

     This year Brian also did Tarot readings for our guests.  People seemed to get a kick out of that.  Yes, Brian is wearing his Mad Hatter hat with a vampire cape.  Don't ask me why.

Costumes

     For my Halloween parties, I like to reuse bits of old Halloween costumes.  This year I went as a "bat lady," (like a cat lady, except fond of bats instead of cats).  I'm wearing the mask I wrote about in this post, my batty cape, and a bat headband that I'll give instructions for soon.  Brian's mom went as the Queen of Hearts.  I have a number of other costume ideas in the Halloween section of my craft blog (as well as other Halloween crafting ideas), so if you're looking for costume ideas check that out.

Domestic Violence Awareness Ribbons

Trigger warning: discussion of domestic violence and sexual assault.  If you are experiencing domestic violence and need help, check out this hotline service or skip to the paragraph below the bullet points in this post for more details on how you can receive help.

     Before I get to this week's craft, I want to take a moment to talk about something serious.  October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month.  This is important because domestic violence is an issue that affects all of us in one way or another, either through our own personal experiences or the experiences of loved ones.  It can take many forms, including physical, emotional, sexual, economic and psychological abuse (source).  More than 1 in 3 women and more than 1 in 4 men in the US will experience physical violence, rape, and/or stalking by an intimate partner in their lifetime (source).  About 1 in 4 women and 1 in 7 men will experience severe physical violence at the hands of an intimate partner in their lifetime (source).  Nearly 1 in 5 women (and 1 in 71 men) will be raped in their lifetime, and of these women, more than half have been assaulted by an intimate partner (40.8% have been assaulted by an acquaintance) (source).  Here in Maine, about half of all homicides are domestic violence related  (source).
     With statistics like these, the odds are that even if you have not personally experienced domestic violence, someone close to you has.  Sadly, there are a lot of misconceptions about what domestic violence is and there is a stigma associated with experiencing it.  Many people who are experiencing emotional, psychological, or economic abuse don't realize that what they are experiencing constitutes abuse because their partner isn't hitting them (if you suspect that you or someone you care about might be experiencing domestic violence, this chart is a good starting place.  If you're still not sure or are wondering what your next step should be, try calling their hotline or talking to someone at your local anti-domestic violence organization).  Many survivors feel pressured into remaining silent about their experiences.  This is why Domestic Violence Awareness Month is so important.  It gives us a chance to come together and say that we will not tolerate domestic violence in any of its forms.  It provides us with an opportunity to educate others about what domestic violence is and to stand with survivors.
     You may be wondering how you can help.  There are numerous ways to get involved, some of which are low commitment.  For example, you could:

• Don purple (the color of domestic violence awareness) or teal (the color of sexual assault awareness) clothing and purple or teal ribbons to show your support.
• Change your Facebook or Twitter profile using this Domestic Violence Awareness Twibbon.
• Attend one of the many Domestic Violence Awareness events going on across the country (this site has some of the events going on across the country, although I'm not sure how comprehensive it is).  If you're a Mainer, click on this link and select the organization corresponding to the county you live in to see what events are happening in your area.  Additionally, if you're a UMaine student or community member, the Student Women's Association will be hosting our annual Take Back The Night march and rally on Thursday, October 15th at 5 pm in the North Pod of the Memorial Union.  We would love to have your presence and support!
• Volunteer to help with your local anti-domestic violence organization.  Needs may vary from one organization to the next, so check with your local group to see what they're looking for.  Hotline workers are a position that many organizations need volunteers to fill on a regular basis.  They often have specific times when they are hosting training sessions, so if you're interested in this be sure to keep an eye out.
• Donate to your local organization.  Groups are always in need of money to maintain and/or expand services.  Many groups that operate shelters may also need personal care items such as shampoos and menstrual hygiene products or toys and games if there are children at the shelter, but check with your specific organization before donating to make sure that your gift best suits their needs.

     The most important thing you can do all year round is listen and offer support.  If you suspect a loved one is in an abusive situation, the best thing you can do is to be there for them in whatever capacity they need.  If you aren't sure how to handle the situation, this site has some good advice.  If you yourself are experiencing or have experienced domestic violence, the National Domestic Violence Hotline is a 24 hour hotline and chat service that can help you figure out the best course of action given your situation.  They have an escape button in the upper left hand corner of their webpage that you can click on if you need to leave the site immediately.  Many local organizations also offer hotline services and other forms of support, so if you have the ability to do so, check out the services that they have to offer.
     I know this has been a heavy post, but this is such an important issue and if I inspire even one person to take action or seek out help, then it was worthwhile.  Now on to this week's craft.

Domestic Violence Awareness Ribbons

Materials

*Purple and teal ribbons, one of which is thicker than the other (the purple ribbon is for domestic violence awareness and the teal one is for sexual assault awareness)

*Safety pins

*Scissors

Directions:

*Take one of the lengths of ribbon and cross it over itself to form a loop, adjusting it until you have a ribbon of the desired length.  Cut off excess ribbon.

*Cut the second ribbon to be the same length as the first.

*Lay the thinner ribbon over the thicker ribbon and cross the two ribbons in the same manner as you did in step one.

*Slide a safety pin through the intersection point of the ribbons.  Use the safety pin to affix the ribbon to your clothes.

Halloween Clothespins

     Before I get started with this week's craft, I wanted to let you know that Amber's Craft a Week Blog is now on Facebook and Pinterest.  The Facebook page is a great way to keep up-to-date on my latest crafts and the Pinterest page will hopefully give you a way to keep track of your favorite crafts.  Anyway, now on to this week's project.

Materials:
*Clothespins or mini clothespins
*Scrap cardstock in Halloween prints
*Black, white, yellow, and orange cardstock
*Silhouette CAMEO or pencil, scissors, and X-acto knife
*Glue

Directions:
*Cut out strips of patterned cardstock long and wide enough to cover the upper face of your clothespins and glue down to the respective clothespins.
*While the clothespin are drying, resize the templates given below to the appropriate sizes and cut out the and assemble the shapes (if you're using a Silhouette CAMEO, see this post for instructions on how to cut out my designs with your machine).

Cut out bat from black cardstock.

Cut out the ghost shape with the face from white cardstock and the one without from black cardstock.  Glue the white cutout over the black cutout.

Cut out the whole candy corn shape from black cardstock.  Cut out the tip of the candy corn from white cardstock and the middle piece from orange.  Cut out either the plain top or one of the three tops with a face from yellow cardstock.  Glue the white, orange, and yellow pieces to the corresponding parts of the black cardstock cutout.

Cut out the filled in pumpkin shape from yellow cardstock and one of the two jack o'lantern shapes from orange cardstock.  Additionally, you may want to cut out a stem from green cardstock, although I liked my jack o'lanterns better without it.  Glue the orange cutout over the yellow cutout and then, if you're using the green stem, glue it over the orange stem shape.

Cut out the witch's shoe from black cardstock.

*Once your clothespins and Halloween shapes are dry, glue the shapes to the clothespins and let dry.

Halloween Countdown Photo Calendar

     Looking for a fun way to count down the days until Halloween?  Try making a photo calendar using old Halloween pictures.  Don't have 31 Halloween pictures you want to use?  Leave some of the tags blank and let the calendar grow over time.  I used 11 pictures from the past 5 years for mine and am excited to see how the calendar will change in the years to come.

Materials:
*Tags numbered 1-31 (see below for ideas)
*Mini clothespins
*Small photos
*Glue
*Scissors
*Halloween ribbon
*Halloween themed bottle cap magnets
*Magnetic tape
*Black and white cardstock

Directions:
*Create number tags.  I cut out this pattern with my Silhouette CAMEO, using white cardstock to cut out the outside part of the tag and purple, black, green, and orange cardstock for the inserts.  However, there are tons of ways you could hand make tags, such as by using Halloween themed cardstock and gluing numbers to the tag, similar to what I did with this Christmas advent calendar.
*Select the photos that you would like to use for your calendar.  Crop them to squares and resize them so that they are small enough to fit on either the insert tags if you're using the same pattern I did, or on the back of the tags if you're making them by hand.  Glue them to the tags accordingly.
*Once the tags are dry, clip them to lengths of ribbon with mini clothespins such that the photo side of the tags are hidden from view.  Next week I'll be explaining how I decorated my clothespins, but if you're looking to make some in the interim, you can use paint, cardstock, stickers, Halloween shaped confetti, etc. for decorating.
*Use bottle cap magnets to hold the ribbon to the refrigerator.  Make sure to use strong magnets.  Mine weren't strong enough and so I ended up having to tape the ribbon to the refrigerator.
*Create a month label.  I used black cardstock and some ribbon from Dollar Tree for the background and overlaid white text in Times New Roman Font (with the exception of the "O," which I got from this Halloween monogram set), but decorate yours as you wish.
*Add magnetic tape to the back of the month label and place it on the fridge.
*To use the calendar, as each day of October passes, turn over the tags (or inserts) to reveal the photo, like I did with the "1" tag in the picture below:

Haunted Mirror

     If you plan to make one craft this Halloween season, make it this mirror.  It requires only minimal effort and skill, but the finished product is great.  It's definitely up there in my list of favorite Halloween decorations I've made.  I based the idea off of this tutorial, but made some modifications.

Materials:
*Picture frame
*Krylon Looking Glass Spray Paint
*Matte sealer
*Spray adhesive
*Print of an old looking photo
*Flat backed glass marbles
*Scissors

Directions:
*Find an old photo.  I went with a daguerreotype image because it already had a "ghost in the mirror" sort of look to it.  You can see it's really dusty, but in the end that doesn't matter because you're cutting around the subject(s), so as long as they aren't obscured too much by grime, you're good.  If you're photographing a daguerreotype of your own, I've found that the image shows up best when it's reflecting a dark background (in this instance my camera case).

This pic is of my great great grandfather William Cornelius "Neil" Bowen (the littler boy wearing the hat) and his brother James.  I've included some info at the end of the post if you're interested in learning more about the brothers.

*Print the photo onto plain printer paper.  If the picture you choose is not black and white (or if the lighting adds unnatural color to it, which is what happened with my photo), decrease the saturation before printing.
*Cut out the photo and then cover it with a matte sealer so that the colors won't bleed.
*Remove the glass from the picture frame and clean it, if desired.  If you don't clean it well or if you don't dry it all the way, you'll end up with splotches on your mirror.  This can add to the old mirror aesthetic, but if you want a crisp image make sure to wash it and either let it air dry or dry it with a clean T-shirt or other cloth that will not leave behind lint.
*Once the glass is dry, set it down on some newspaper in a well-ventilated area.  Slide the photo across the glass until you find a placement you like.  Place the photo face down on the glass and secure it in place by laying flat backed glass marbles on top of it.
*Spray the glass following the instructions on the back of the Looking Glass Paint bottle.  You'll end up doing five thin coats of paint to get the mirror look.
*An hour after applying the final coat of paint, remove the picture from the glass.  Apply one or two very thin coats of paint to the place where the photo was.  I ended up applying two, but I kind of wish I had done only one, as it would have allowed the image to show up better.
*Glue the photo in place using spray adhesive and set aside to dry.
*Once dry, place the glass back inside the frame.  Now you have your very own "haunted" mirror!

It's tricky getting the "ghosts" to show up well for the camera (isn't that how it always goes ;) ).  They are easiest to see when the mirror is facing a dark backdrop.  I managed to get the below picture by draping a navy blue blanket over a bench and across the floor in front of the mirror and then angling the camera so that I was cut out of the shot.  The same goes for seeing the "ghosts."  Depending on the lighting and background, you may see nothing more than a shaded region, but you also might see a sharper image, like the one pictured below.

A Haunting Good Time

     Here's a fun little trick to play on your friends.  Invite them over to your house.  If they don't immediately notice the strange reflection in the mirror, take a photo of them with the mirror and then show them the image and see what they say.  Alternately, you could upload a pic of yourself with the mirror to Facebook and see if anyone notices that you're not alone.

About the Bowen Brothers:

     John James "James" Bowen was born December 13th, 1847 and his brother William Cornelius "Neil" Bowen was born November 9th, 1849.  Their parents were Harriet Emily (Britton) of Philadelphia and Stephen Riley Bowen, born in Worcester County, Maryland.  The brothers were baptized at St. Mary's Protestant Episcopal Church in Philadelphia on November 30th, 1849.  In 1850 the boys lived in West Philadelphia with their parents, their maternal grandmother Julia Ann Allen (Blodget) Britton, and several aunts and uncles.  Their mother died in February of 1852.  I have yet to determine what happened to their father; he may have died as well, but by 1860 the brothers had been separated.  James stayed with his grandmother, while William Cornelius was sent to Northampton County, North Carolina to live with his aunt Ellen Matilda (Britton) and her husband Dr. Cornelius Godwin Cotten Moore.
     In 1870 the brothers were again living together in Philadelphia, this time at the home of their uncle John Blodgett Briton.  James was working as a medical doctor.  This is the last record I can find of him before his death certificate.  He was listed as single at the time of his death.  He worked as a physician and inventor until his retirement.  Toward the end of his life, he was living at the Old Man's Home in Philadelphia.  He died on January 4th, 1918.
     "Willie," as he was  referred to in the census record, was working as a clerk, perhaps as a summer job, since he was a student at the University of Virginia during this time period.  He was an instrumental member in the establishment of the fraternity Kappa Sigma.  After finishing his schooling he returned to Northampton County to practice law.
     On June 5th, 1877 he married Frances Josephine "Josi" Southall, daughter of Sarah Clifton (Wheeler) and James Hunter Southall.  Josi had been born in Mississippi, but was sent to North Carolina to live with her aunt Julia Monroe (Wheeler) and uncle Godwin Cotten Moore at their plantation Mulberry Grove, which was where she and Neil married.  The young couple settled into a former plantation house nicknamed "Southerly" near Jackson, North Carolina.  They had five daughters together, Harriet Emily Bowen, Julia Southall (Bowen) Peebles (my great grandmother), Ellen Britton Bowen, Josephine (Bowen) Hughes, and Bland Clifton Bowen.
     Around 1890 Neil moved to Denver, Colorado for health reasons.  Josi and the girls stayed in North Carolina.  Josi passed away on January 25th, 1893 and her sister, Julia Monroe Southall took over caring for the girls.  By 1910 Neil had returned to Jackson and three of his daughters were living with him.  He died on September 23, 1911 and was buried at the Church of the Saviour Cemetery in Jackson.

Halloween Graveyard Party Invite

Materials:
*Cardstock in red, black, dark blue, gray, green, brown, and white
*Scissors, pencil, and printer or Silhouette CAMEO
*Pen or gel pen
*Glue

Black and White and Color Templates

Cutting by Hand Directions

*Resize the invite template to the desired width for your invites and print.

*Cut out the various pieces of the template.  The grass portion (the one with all the jagged bits) may be a little time consuming for hand cutting, so feel free to smooth it out if you wish.

*Using the color-coded template guide, trace the shapes onto their respective sheets of cardstock and cut out (the moon here is yellow to distinguish it from the background, but I used white paper for it).

*Write out the party info on the tombstones, if it will fit.  Alternately, you could use a white or silver gel pen to write the info off to the side of the tree after you've settled your design.

*Taking a piece of dark blue cardstock cropped to the appropriate size, align the various pieces of the invite in accordance with the invite photo at the top of the page.  I left the roots on the tree in case you wanted to use the template for other projects, but for this you'll have to trim them a bit to get the tree to fit properly in the design.

*Glue down the various pieces of the invite.

Silhouette CAMEO Directions

*Download the black and white invite template to your computer and run the Silhouette Studio program.

*From the File menu, select "Import" and then "Import to Library" and then select the template from wherever on your computer you started.  Now the template will show up in your library.

*Set the page settings to the dimensions of your cardstock and then drag the template onto your page and resize the template to your desired size.

*Click on the button that opens the trace window (it looks kind of like a blue butterfly with a yellow background and if you hover your mouse over it, it says, "Open the Trace Window").

*Click on the "Select Trace Area" button and draw a blue rectangle around the part of the template you want to cut out first, say the tree.  At this point you should see a yellow outline around the tree.

*Adjust the High Pass Filter until the tree is entirely yellow and then click the "Trace" button under the "Apply Trace Method" section.  You should now have a red outline around your tree.

*Drag the red outline to the upper left corner of the screen.  Copy it as many times as you need invites and line them up so that they don't overlap.  DO NOT delete the template from the page.  The CAMEO will only cut out the red outlines and if you delete the template, it could make it difficult to size the rest of the pieces of the template so that they line up exactly.

*Following the color coded template guide (the moon is in yellow to distinguish it from the background, but I used white paper for it), align the appropriate colored sheet of paper on the cutting mat and load it into the machine.

*Click on the "Cut Settings" button and under material type, select cardstock, then click the "Send to Silhouette" button.

*Delete the red outlines from the page in Silhouette Studios.  Go back to the trace window, select the next part of the template you would like to use, and trace it, using the same procedure as outlined above.  Peel the pieces off the cut mat, place the next sheet of cardstock on and load the mat, and cut out as before.  Repeat this process for each of the different pieces.

*Write out the party info on the tombstones, if it will fit.  Alternately, you could use a white or silver gel pen to write the info off to the side of the tree after you've settled your design.
*Taking a piece of dark blue cardstock cropped to the appropriate size, align the various pieces of the invite in accordance with the invite photo at the top of the page.  I left the roots on the tree in case you wanted to use the template for other projects, but for this you'll have to trim them a bit to get the tree to fit properly in the design.
*Glue down the various pieces of the invite.